I am sharing today’s Los Angeles weekly article: (La Weekly)
Second Act of Andrea McGinti will make you back in dating games- and love it
If you are more than 50 and feel lost in the wild world of modern dating – Spipes, Texting Rules, and all – and McGinti have your roadmap.
His brand-new book, Second Act: Winning strategies for more than 50 datingNow out, and it is the ultimate guide to find love in today’s digital age. Whether you are new single, entering the dating scene after years (or decades!) In fact Outside there – Spiiler alert: There is – this book will give you confidence, strategy, and yes, even some laughter to get out.
McGinty is just no dating specialist – she is a legend. As the founder of This is just lunchHe helped 33,000 Customers get love. Now, she is bringing her no-child, out-manual approach to more than 50 people who are ready for them Second work,
“I have written this book because more than 50 people are throwing in a towel very soon! They try to dating apps for two weeks, and leave. But the truth is that love is personal, and success is success. StrategicMy book runs you through everything-from crafting a killer profile to navigating the first dates-the trendsheet, with real-world suggestions and a little hard love, “McGinti says.
And let’s not ignore the elephant in the room: Loneliness“This is an epidemic,” she says. “Finding the right partner is not just about romance – it’s about happiness, health and longevity.”
More than 50 dating: What has changed?
If you feel that modern dating is a disaster, then McGinty has news for you: It was never easy to meet a great,
“When i started This is just lunch In 1990, online dating was not even present – Google was not present! Early dating sites? Total mess. Now, we have strong filters and safe, safe, user -friendly platforms with algorithms. You just need to know how to use them. ,
The biggest dating myth- Bust!
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“There is no one.” Untrue! One of the three marriages started online for more than 50 people.
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“All good people are taken.” Nope- Million of magnificent singles is watching.
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“Men only want young women.” Lie too! Many men like women their age because they have shared life experiences.
Are you catching back? People make the biggest mistakes
McGinty has seen all this, and he is not shy about excluding the biggest mistakes made by people while entering the world of dating again:
Poor photos. No blurred selfie, no car shot, and please, keep the giant fish down.
Cring Bios. Oversairing? Gambling? bad grammar? just no
, Neither negativity. No, “I have been online” complaints or political manifesto.
The journey starts again. Instead of listing every country you view, say, “I once lost in Venice and discovered the best Tiramisu.” This is a conversation starter!
Very healthy thing. Replacement of your knee? Important-not the first-rhetoric material.
How to make Tireless Dating profile
Show, don’t tell. You can say more than a paragraph for hiking, cooking, or playing guitar.
A bizarre opener. A customer started: “I gather pens. More than 2,000 and count!” – And a picture was sitting in a pile of pen. it worked.
Number of magic of photos? Six.
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A full-edged shot
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1-2 social shots (are your friends!)
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1-2 something you love
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A close-up
Bonus points for dogs! 85% of people love a dog in a profile photo. Sorry, cat lover.
Creating yourself: Branding in dating
Think of it in this way: You brand yourself on social media in advance – why not in dating? Your dating brand should reflect:
✅ What makes you unique
When you show To yourself—What and make clear about what you want, you will stand out of the crowd.
Are not sure you are ready to date again?
McGinty’s book has an underlying intestine check: Am I ready to date again? This is a worksheet designed to help you find out if you are really ready for it.
From Andrea, (not part of the article): The response I am receiving on the worksheet in the book: So far, readers seem most useful “I am reading to date again” and “What your mindset” — I think they are important before jumping back to the datas … and fun!
And, I had many customers this week who bought the book —- and now buying more copies for gifts for Galantine and Valentine’s Day. just saying. ,
And if you are on the fence? “I offer a 15 -minute consultation where I will give you an honest truth:
✔ ‘Yes, let’s do it!’ Or ✖ ‘Give yourself more time and call me in six months.’
In any way, I will stay here when you are ready. ,
Loneliness epidemic and gray divorce
More than 56 people are struggling with loneliness? Because families are more spread, the rate of gray divorce has doubled, and online dating may feel heavy. This is the reason Second works In existence – to make love easier even in the digital age.
Why is the gray divorce touching the sky?
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Empty nest syndrome. The children leave, and suddenly, there is nothing left.
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Financial freedom. More people can leave unhappy marriages.
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No other stigma. Divorce is not a scam that was once.
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Now life expectancy. No one now wants to compromise for “just fine”.
How do you bounce back after gray divorce?
Expand your social circle. Pickle, bridge, travel group- try to do something new! Start dating again. Four “After the practice dates,” You would say, “Wow, I have still found!”
More than 50 dating is not about settling – it is about being prosperous. With the right mentality, strategies and a small expert guidance, your Second work It is possible Best act.
Second Act: Winning strategies for more than 50 dating Now available!
Andrea McGinti is a leading dating specialist with 30 years of experience. As the founder of This is just lunchHe helped in the matchmaking industry, helped 330,000 Customers get love. Now, through his coaching and the latest book, Second Act: Winning strategies for more than 50 datingShe is guiding a new generation of solo through the modern dating world.
McGinty is painted The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Today ShowMore. When she is not coaching customers, you will travel her journey, hiking, or the best Tiramisu.
